en telling them they are useless by comparing them to others. They should never do this. The only outcome of such an act is subconscious hatred for parents. Such parents lament that their children are neglecting and ill-treating them during old age not realizing that it was their own making. Parents should always look for positive attributes is children. Every one has both strength and weakness. By focusing or a child’s strength parents can bring the best out of them. This helps is building a stable anIt is quite natural for parents to have all sorts of dreams about their children, more so if they belong to the highly educated and affluent class. Children from such families are exposed to a more favorable environment and as such are more likely to make full use of their talents and skills. But it is necessary to bear in mind that every child is unique and no one is an exact replica of his parents. Some parents tend to get upset when their children do not seem to go along a path they had envisaged. Though genetic factors play a very important role in the personality of an individual, children can very considerably from their parents in several aspects. A child born to a great scientist may want to become a musician and a child born to a great musician may show more interest in science. Sometimes a child of exceptionally intelligent parents may be of below average intelligence and vice versa.

Many parents commit the mistake of showing special affection towards a particular child- because of his/her looks or intelligence or some special skill. They fail to realize the impact of this bias on the mind of the other children. In such a situation other children may develop inferiority complex and not try to improve themselves. They may also harbor jealousy and/or hatred towards their sibling and also hatred towards their parents. This can lead to many serious problems in the family. On the other extreme a handicapped child may get all the parental attention leaving normal children frustrated and angry. This situation is not easy to handle. A handicapped child certainly needs more attention parents should try to involve their normal child in the care of the handicapped child without making him feel that he is being neglected. They should try to make him feel important by acknowledging his role in the care of the less fortunate sibling and also for his own achievement.

Another serious mistake committed by parents is comparing their children with children of others. Many parents ridicule their own children telling them they are useless by comparing them to others. They should never do this. The only outcome of such an act is subconscious hatred for parents. Such parents lament that their children are neglecting and ill-treating them during old age not realizing that it was their own making. Parents should always look for positive attributes is children. Every one has both strength and weakness. By focusing or a child’s strength parents can bring the best out of them. This helps is building a stable and

genetic factors play a very important role in the personality of an individual, children can very considerably from their parents in several aspects. A child born to a great scientist may want to become a musician and a child born to a great musician may show more interest in science. Sometimes a child of exceptionally intelligent parents may be of below average intelligence and vice versa.

Many parents commit the mistake of showing special affection towards a particular child- because of his/her looks or intelligence or some special skill. They fail to realize the impact of this bias on the mind of the other children. In such a situation other children may develop inferiority complex and not try to improve themselves. They may also harbor jealousy and/or hatred towards their sibling and also hatred towards their parents. This can lead to many serious problems in the family. On the other extreme a handicapped child may get all the parental attention leaving normal children frustrated and angry. This situation is not easy to handle. A handicapped child certainly needs more attention parents should try to involve their normal child in the care of the handicapped child without making him feel that he is being neglected. They should try to make him feel important by acknowledging his role in the care of the less fortunate sibling and also for his own achievement.

Another serious mistake committed by parents is comparing their children with children of others. Many parents ridicule their own children telling them they are useless by comparing them to others. They should never do this. The only outcome of such an act is subconscious hatred for parents. Such parents lament that their children are neglecting and ill-treating them during old age not realizing that it was their own making. Parents should always look for positive attributes is children. Every one has both strength and weakness. By focusing or a child’s strength parents can bring the best out of them. This helps is building a stable an

ks or intelligence or some special skill. They fail to realize the impact of this bias on the mind of the other children. In such a situation other children may develop inferiority complex and not try to improve themselves. They may also harbor jealousy and/or hatred towards their sibling and also hatred towards their parents. This can lead to many serious problems in the family. On the other extreme a handicapped child may get all the parental attention leaving normal children frustrated and angry. This situation is not easy to handle. A handicapped child certainly needs more attention parents should try to involve their normal child in the care of the handicapped child without making him feel that he is being neglected. They should try to make him feel important by acknowledging his role in the care of the less fortunate sibling and also for his own achievement.

Another serious mistake committed by parents is comparing their children with children of others. Many parents ridicule their own children telling them they are useless by comparing them to others. They should never do this. The only outcome of such an act is subconscious hatred for parents. Such parents lament that their children are neglecting and ill-treating them during old age not realizing that it was their own making. Parents should always look for positive attributes is children. Every one has both strength and weakness. By focusing or a child’s strength parents can bring the best out of them. This helps is building a stable an

s situation is not easy to handle. A handicapped child certainly needs more attention parents should try to involve their normal child in the care of the handicapped child without making him feel that he is being neglected. They should try to make him feel important by acknowledging his role in the care of the less fortunate sibling and also for his own achievement.

Another serious mistake committed by parents is comparing their children with children of others. Many parents ridicule their own children telling them they are useless by comparing them to others. They should never do this. The only outcome of such an act is subconscious hatred for parents. Such parents lament that their children are neglecting and ill-treating them during old age not realizing that it was their own making. Parents should always look for positive attributes is children. Every one has both strength and weakness. By focusing or a child’s strength parents can bring the best out of them. This helps is building a stable an

en telling them they are useless by comparing them to others. They should never do this. The only outcome of such an act is subconscious hatred for parents. Such parents lament that their children are neglecting and ill-treating them during old age not realizing that it was their own making. Parents should always look for positive attributes is children. Every one has both strength and weakness. By focusing or a child’s strength parents can bring the best out of them. This helps is building a stable and enjoyable relationship. It is quite common to see parents proudly announcing the achievements of their children. They even take credit for their children’s achievements. But if one child fails to achieve something does he/she cease to be their child? To sum up parents should give their unconditional love to all their children right from birth. They should give up unrealistic expectations, desist from making sarcastic remarks and help the children to become the best of what they are capable of.