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As he took a sip from his paper bag, obviously alcohol from his breath he admitted to being part of a secret government covert group working inside the United States. He said on March 11, 2007 there would be an attack much like 9/11. He said it would occur on the day of the 3-11 on the day of the time change and it would be a 9/11 style cyber attack.He said the reason for the time change is that people would be very tired due to the change and therefore be unable to reason the events as they unfolded very rapidly. He said this was all part of the conspiracy. At first I completely laughed it off but he looked at me with steely eyes and said; "No joke my friend." He then stated; on 311 the United States will be attacked and its computer infrastructure will be brought to its knees. This time I did not laugh. :(He stated that the attack would be done with the help of Chinese hackers and the United States black ops group and
Father's give guidance and support.
When I got good grades on my report card my dad rewarded and encouraged me. When I was in the fifth grade I became fascinated with the ocean and thought I w
Perhaps one of the most challenging conditions that can afflict a child early in life is attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (also known as ADHD or ADD). But rather than being engrossed in wondering what we, as parents, might have done wrong or what might have caused the onset of the disorder, it is better to find ways to help our children cope up with this condition.ADD can be a lifelong burden. Studies indicate that approximately 30 to 70% of all ADD cases can persist up to the adult years. What's worse is that majority of these cases can go on undiagnosed and untreated. Being an adult with ADD is not an easy call, either. The symptoms of ADD can very much complicate an afflicted individual's life, which may lead to the development of low self-esteem, substance abuse and relationship problems, among others.Given this scenario, treating and supporting a child with this condition can be considered a dire necessity. It can be
Instead of crying this year I have decided to celebrate Father's day by giving props to my dad and all the dads like him.
I hope that maybe this will be encouraging and inspiring to fathers, to those that have issues with their fathers, for moms that make it difficult to be fathers, for dads that are failing at being fathers, and for those who are celebrating the memory of their fathers.
We often hear the saying "anybody can make a baby but it takes a man to take care of one." My daddy's name is Charles, which means: man, free man. He was an "O.G." from Compton and a product of his environment but he lived up to his name. He was a man.
This morning I wracked my brain trying to think of a song commemorating dads but the few that came to mind just didn't seem to fit. This made me wonder: why aren't there more songs biggin' up dads? Are dads not making a big enough impact on their children? Most of the songs I hear that mention dads talk about how dad was never there…
My parents divorced when I was 7 or 8 but my daddy was always just a phone call away, actually he lived next door to my grandmother (my moms mom, so I saw him all the time).
My dad took me to the movies, museums, amusement parks, restaurants, arcades, and bowling. We did a lot of things that didn't cost money like playing Nintendo, watching Kung Fu Theater, flying kites, going swimming at parks and feeding the ducks. When my dad didn't have a car we rode the bus, walked, or rode bikes. He spent quality time with me. He wasn't rich and he didn't always have money (its hard to get a job when you're a convicted felon so you have to make ends meet however you can, and when you have kids in the hood that's often by any means necessary).
When we think of fathers we think "provider." My dad was not always able to provide financially but looking back I see how much he provided in other ways.
I learned the art of the "side hustle" and bartering from my dad. My dad's garage was the neighborhood hang out. It was set up like a gameroom/gym/barbershop he always blasted the boom box (that was my introduction to hip hop). Everyone came to the garage for haircuts and to kick it. For those that didn't necessarily have the money to pay for his services he charged them a bag of skittles or M&M's, which he gave to us (his kids).
My dad provided examples of entrepreneurship and lessons in economics. I won't really get into his main hustle but I will say that my dad supplied a demand. In watching my dad's business deals, negotiations, and transactions, I not only learned street smarts, I also learned business savy and I too wanted to be an entrepreneur. He helped me set up my first business when I was 10, a bake sale in the front yard.
My daddy's actions went with the philosophy of "Give a man a fish, you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, you feed him for a lifetime." In demonstrating how to identify economic opportunities to provide for myself my daddy taught me to be independent and to think outside the box.
We look to fathers for leadership.
I never saw my daddy bow down to anyone. He always stood his ground no matter what. My dad was an exemplary leader. When I was a kid I could see the respect and reverence people had for him. Then I thought it was because my dad was also known for being 'crazy.' I know now that it was because he was leader and that he was actually "crazy like a fox."
He was the oldest of 5. He was the head of his business (when he was in business). He started a popular lowrider car club. (Yes, my dad was 'hittin switches' in his Impala). He knew how to organize and manage. He was never afraid to buck the system or speak his mind. Because of his knowledge and wisdom people frequently came to him for advice. He was like a "Consigliere" to many. His leadership skills made an impression on me, I wanted to be a leader too. In the sixth grade I started the first drill team at my school and became the first black student body president (although I lived in Compton I went to school in Westwood). By the time I got to high school I had been an active member in many clubs, held many titles, won many awards, and served two terms as student body president my senior year.
Father's give guidance and support.
When I got good grades on my report card my dad rewarded and encouraged me. When I was in the fifth grade I became fascinated with the ocean and thought I wa
By far, interview etiquette remains the third most important factor that decides the fates of most job candidates. Subject expertise or skills and body language are the only two qualities that score over interview etiquette, according to expert human resource practitioners. These elements gain importance, as they are often the only indications of a candidate’s character.Interview Etiquette: An OverviewIf etiquette can be described as rules governing socially acceptable behavior, they apply to a job interview, too, in the same fashion. Good etiquette shows from the moment you enter the company, and how you conduct yourself until you are called.1. Unless someone shows you in, knock at the door before you enter.2. Being lenient with dressing, un-pressed clothing or wearing casual clothing for interviews is simply not good etiquette. An office environment and especially interviews call for formal dress.3. Greeting the i
My parents divorced when I was 7 or 8 but my daddy was always just a phone call away, actually he lived next door to my grandmother (my moms mom, so I saw him all the time).
My dad took me to the movies, museums, amusement parks, restaurants, arcades, and bowling. We did a lot of things that didn't cost money like playing Nintendo, watching Kung Fu Theater, flying kites, going swimming at parks and feeding the ducks. When my dad didn't have a car we rode the bus, walked, or rode bikes. He spent quality time with me. He wasn't rich and he didn't always have money (its hard to get a job when you're a convicted felon so you have to make ends meet however you can, and when you have kids in the hood that's often by any means necessary).
When we think of fathers we think "provider." My dad was not always able to provide financially but looking back I see how much he provided in other ways.
I learned the art of the "side hustle" and bartering from my dad. My dad's garage was the neighborhood hang out. It was set up like a gameroom/gym/barbershop he always blasted the boom box (that was my introduction to hip hop). Everyone came to the garage for haircuts and to kick it. For those that didn't necessarily have the money to pay for his services he charged them a bag of skittles or M&M's, which he gave to us (his kids).
My dad provided examples of entrepreneurship and lessons in economics. I won't really get into his main hustle but I will say that my dad supplied a demand. In watching my dad's business deals, negotiations, and transactions, I not only learned street smarts, I also learned business savy and I too wanted to be an entrepreneur. He helped me set up my first business when I was 10, a bake sale in the front yard.
My daddy's actions went with the philosophy of "Give a man a fish, you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, you feed him for a lifetime." In demonstrating how to identify economic opportunities to provide for myself my daddy taught me to be independent and to think outside the box.
We look to fathers for leadership.
I never saw my daddy bow down to anyone. He always stood his ground no matter what. My dad was an exemplary leader. When I was a kid I could see the respect and reverence people had for him. Then I thought it was because my dad was also known for being 'crazy.' I know now that it was because he was leader and that he was actually "crazy like a fox."
He was the oldest of 5. He was the head of his business (when he was in business). He started a popular lowrider car club. (Yes, my dad was 'hittin switches' in his Impala). He knew how to organize and manage. He was never afraid to buck the system or speak his mind. Because of his knowledge and wisdom people frequently came to him for advice. He was like a "Consigliere" to many. His leadership skills made an impression on me, I wanted to be a leader too. In the sixth grade I started the first drill team at my school and became the first black student body president (although I lived in Compton I went to school in Westwood). By the time I got to high school I had been an active member in many clubs, held many titles, won many awards, and served two terms as student body president my senior year.
Father's give guidance and support.
When I got good grades on my report card my dad rewarded and encouraged me. When I was in the fifth grade I became fascinated with the ocean and thought I w
A condominium is a building or complex wherein its built up property, such as apartments, are owned by individuals who hold the rights to ownership. The common area of the condominium, such as the staircase, lobby, grounds and gardens are under the judiciary of the property holders and are termed as common property. Timeshare too is based on a very similar concept. Interested individuals are required to pay a membership fee and a recurring maintenance charge. Timeshare refers to a holiday system that offers people a type of ownership at a vacation condominium for a specified period during the entire tenure of a membership. The vacation property that is owned is referred to a condo.Florida timeshare condos refer to any vacation property unit. Timeshare boasts of uniformity in spite of functioning on such a large scale. For this reason, similar to other locations, Florida timeshare condos tend to be similar in design. Florida timeshare condos ar
When we think of fathers we think "provider." My dad was not always able to provide financially but looking back I see how much he provided in other ways.
I learned the art of the "side hustle" and bartering from my dad. My dad's garage was the neighborhood hang out. It was set up like a gameroom/gym/barbershop he always blasted the boom box (that was my introduction to hip hop). Everyone came to the garage for haircuts and to kick it. For those that didn't necessarily have the money to pay for his services he charged them a bag of skittles or M&M's, which he gave to us (his kids).
My dad provided examples of entrepreneurship and lessons in economics. I won't really get into his main hustle but I will say that my dad supplied a demand. In watching my dad's business deals, negotiations, and transactions, I not only learned street smarts, I also learned business savy and I too wanted to be an entrepreneur. He helped me set up my first business when I was 10, a bake sale in the front yard.
My daddy's actions went with the philosophy of "Give a man a fish, you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, you feed him for a lifetime." In demonstrating how to identify economic opportunities to provide for myself my daddy taught me to be independent and to think outside the box.
We look to fathers for leadership.
I never saw my daddy bow down to anyone. He always stood his ground no matter what. My dad was an exemplary leader. When I was a kid I could see the respect and reverence people had for him. Then I thought it was because my dad was also known for being 'crazy.' I know now that it was because he was leader and that he was actually "crazy like a fox."
He was the oldest of 5. He was the head of his business (when he was in business). He started a popular lowrider car club. (Yes, my dad was 'hittin switches' in his Impala). He knew how to organize and manage. He was never afraid to buck the system or speak his mind. Because of his knowledge and wisdom people frequently came to him for advice. He was like a "Consigliere" to many. His leadership skills made an impression on me, I wanted to be a leader too. In the sixth grade I started the first drill team at my school and became the first black student body president (although I lived in Compton I went to school in Westwood). By the time I got to high school I had been an active member in many clubs, held many titles, won many awards, and served two terms as student body president my senior year.
Father's give guidance and support.
When I got good grades on my report card my dad rewarded and encouraged me. When I was in the fifth grade I became fascinated with the ocean and thought I w
As an NLP master practitioner who runs an NLP practice in Herts, I am one of the first to sing the praises of NLP as a therapy tool, as I believe it can be a really effective instrument for change work, when used in the hands of a good NLP practitioner.However, as an occupational therapist, and having worked in mainstream NHS mental-healthcare, I also believe that NLP at times sends out a misleading vibe, which cannot be said of some of the more traditional therapies. By this I mean that NLP can give the impression of being this magical therapy that will cure people in minutes, when years of psychotherapy, counselling, cognitive behavioural therapy etc. has had little or no effect.The result of this misconception about NLP, is that clients can turn up for a consultation at NLP Herts, expecting the therapist to wave her magic wand, with little or no effort on their part. Like all therapies, NLP relies heavily on the client’s commitmen
My daddy's actions went with the philosophy of "Give a man a fish, you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, you feed him for a lifetime." In demonstrating how to identify economic opportunities to provide for myself my daddy taught me to be independent and to think outside the box.
We look to fathers for leadership.
I never saw my daddy bow down to anyone. He always stood his ground no matter what. My dad was an exemplary leader. When I was a kid I could see the respect and reverence people had for him. Then I thought it was because my dad was also known for being 'crazy.' I know now that it was because he was leader and that he was actually "crazy like a fox."
He was the oldest of 5. He was the head of his business (when he was in business). He started a popular lowrider car club. (Yes, my dad was 'hittin switches' in his Impala). He knew how to organize and manage. He was never afraid to buck the system or speak his mind. Because of his knowledge and wisdom people frequently came to him for advice. He was like a "Consigliere" to many. His leadership skills made an impression on me, I wanted to be a leader too. In the sixth grade I started the first drill team at my school and became the first black student body president (although I lived in Compton I went to school in Westwood). By the time I got to high school I had been an active member in many clubs, held many titles, won many awards, and served two terms as student body president my senior year.
Father's give guidance and support.
When I got good grades on my report card my dad rewarded and encouraged me. When I was in the fifth grade I became fascinated with the ocean and thought I w
When you enjoy the look, the simplicity, the rustic design, accessories, clothing and more retail items made by the hands of Amish workers, your curiosities may exceed the merchandise. Often, people who display the handiworks of a certain culture in his or her home will usually be interested in that culture. With his or her interest sparked, there is only so much an individual can know about the Amish by reading or admiring their craft.Sometimes people want to get the actual feel of being near or among the Amish people to soak in the sense of their culture, structure, and really connect with it all. Sometimes people visit the Amish, however, simply to understand and / or gain respect for the Amish people. I believe strongly in the encouragement of others to gain knowledge and respect for other cultures and belief systems.I think it is important that people understand each other. It is important that people discover the human nature
Father's give guidance and support.
When I got good grades on my report card my dad rewarded and encouraged me. When I was in the fifth grade I became fascinated with the ocean and thought I wanted to become an oceanographer. My dad got up extremely early in the morning and took me to Cabrillo beach in time for the tide so that I could research and investigate tide pools. He also took me to Marineland. He listened to me and supported my thoughts and ideas. He instilled the belief that I could be whatever I set my mind to.
We expect fathers to be selfless not selfish.
Some of the kids in our hood didn't have dads for whatever reason. My dad took kids with us when we went places. He made sure that we shared our slip 'n slide, kites, bikes, games, and gadgets with the neighborhood kids. At his funeral someone told me that if wasn't for him they wouldn't have had anything for Christmas. I use to see my dad give the mentally challenged man across the street soap, and toiletries. My dad got up early every morning and he would water the grass, shovel the dirt, shape the plants, work out, and then he would go walking collecting cans (not to recycle for himself) he would take the cans to a deaf and mute man that lived around the corner. My daddy taught me to be giving and caring. My dad was all about giving back to the community.
Before my daddy died he told be me not to be afraid and to learn everything that I can. Each day I face my fears and learn what I can.
Despite my dad's plights and circumstances he was a great father. There are many just like him through out hoods in America. I wish them all a Happy Father's Day. I hope that more will step up, be men, and fathers. Quality time and love make all the difference in the world!
------- SOME IMPORTANT STATISTICS to consider from Fathersrights.org
* 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes
(Source: U.S. D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census)
* 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes
(Source: U.S- D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census)
*85% of all children that exhibit behavioral disorders come from
fatherless
homes
(Source: Center for Disease Control)
*80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes
(Source: Criminal Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p- 403-26, 1978
*71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes
(Source: National Principals Association Report on the State of High
schools)
*75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from
fatherless homes
(Source: Rainbows For All God's Children.)
*70% of juveniles in state-operated institutions come from fatherless
homes
(Source: U.S. Dept. of justice, special Report, Sept 1988)
These statistics translate to mean that children from a fatherless home
are:
*5 times more likely to commit suicide.
*32 times more likely to run away.
*20 times more likely to have behavioral disorders.
*14 times more likely to commit rape
*9 times more likely to drop out of high school.
*10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances.
*9 times more likely to end up in a state-operated institution
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