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Member You - There's No Such Thing as SHOULD
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So discovering our shoulds, and learning how to manage them, is perhaps what the philosophers mean when they say that the ‘Truth Shall Set You Free’.
For those readers still not convinced, consider what happens when one person’s set of shoulds comes upon another person’s set of sh
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The phrase ‘knowing yourself’ is a cute one, but what does it really mean?
And how does ‘knowing yourself’ help you with others?
Implicit in the concept is the notion of duality as though I am one entity and Myself is another, separate one.
So what is the reality? Am I me?
If so, surely I would automatically know everything about me. And if I’m not me, then who am I?
OK, all of us have some experience of what the shrinks call Self-Talk, where we comment internally on the events going on in our lives. The frequency and timbre of this varies from individual to individual, but nevertheless, we all do it to some extent. (And, unless you are 20 decibels too loud, others don’t seem to mind. Happily, you don’t usually reach that level until after they strap the jacket on.)
As someone who has pursued the ever-decreasing spiral of introspection for years, I am totally convinced of the benefits of so doing, and a strong believer in the adage quoted on the bridge. Understanding what makes us tick brings freedom from the tyranny of having to behave according to how we think we SHOULD.
The collection of ’shoulds’ that we carry around with us in our heads is often responsible for making us feel bad inside. We have an expectation of how we should behave in a situation, and when we fail to live up to that, we start beating ourselves over the head for not measuring up. Of course the reality is that the only place where the ‘should’ exists is between our ears.
So discovering our shoulds, and learning how to manage them, is perhaps what the philosophers mean when they say that the ‘Truth Shall Set You Free’.
For those readers still not convinced, consider what happens when one person’s set of shoulds comes upon another person’s set of sho
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Implicit in the concept is the notion of duality as though I am one entity and Myself is another, separate one.
So what is the reality? Am I me?
If so, surely I would automatically know everything about me. And if I’m not me, then who am I?
OK, all of us have some experience of what the shrinks call Self-Talk, where we comment internally on the events going on in our lives. The frequency and timbre of this varies from individual to individual, but nevertheless, we all do it to some extent. (And, unless you are 20 decibels too loud, others don’t seem to mind. Happily, you don’t usually reach that level until after they strap the jacket on.)
As someone who has pursued the ever-decreasing spiral of introspection for years, I am totally convinced of the benefits of so doing, and a strong believer in the adage quoted on the bridge. Understanding what makes us tick brings freedom from the tyranny of having to behave according to how we think we SHOULD.
The collection of ’shoulds’ that we carry around with us in our heads is often responsible for making us feel bad inside. We have an expectation of how we should behave in a situation, and when we fail to live up to that, we start beating ourselves over the head for not measuring up. Of course the reality is that the only place where the ‘should’ exists is between our ears.
So discovering our shoulds, and learning how to manage them, is perhaps what the philosophers mean when they say that the ‘Truth Shall Set You Free’.
For those readers still not convinced, consider what happens when one person’s set of shoulds comes upon another person’s set of sh
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As someone who has pursued the ever-decreasing spiral of introspection for years, I am totally convinced of the benefits of so doing, and a strong believer in the adage quoted on the bridge. Understanding what makes us tick brings freedom from the tyranny of having to behave according to how we think we SHOULD.
The collection of ’shoulds’ that we carry around with us in our heads is often responsible for making us feel bad inside. We have an expectation of how we should behave in a situation, and when we fail to live up to that, we start beating ourselves over the head for not measuring up. Of course the reality is that the only place where the ‘should’ exists is between our ears.
So discovering our shoulds, and learning how to manage them, is perhaps what the philosophers mean when they say that the ‘Truth Shall Set You Free’.
For those readers still not convinced, consider what happens when one person’s set of shoulds comes upon another person’s set of sh
The No Child Left Behind (NCLB) program is a federal law that governs elementary and secondary education and is funded by Federal Title I. Under the NCLB, school boards must ensure that their high poverty schools meet the educational needs of low-achieving students. The goal is to close the achievement gap between the high and low-performing students.San Diego Schools are committed to delivering strong standards-based education with pr
The collection of ’shoulds’ that we carry around with us in our heads is often responsible for making us feel bad inside. We have an expectation of how we should behave in a situation, and when we fail to live up to that, we start beating ourselves over the head for not measuring up. Of course the reality is that the only place where the ‘should’ exists is between our ears.
So discovering our shoulds, and learning how to manage them, is perhaps what the philosophers mean when they say that the ‘Truth Shall Set You Free’.
For those readers still not convinced, consider what happens when one person’s set of shoulds comes upon another person’s set of sh
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So discovering our shoulds, and learning how to manage them, is perhaps what the philosophers mean when they say that the ‘Truth Shall Set You Free’.
For those readers still not convinced, consider what happens when one person’s set of shoulds comes upon another person’s set of shoulds. And what happens when both these sets of shoulds have persuaded their carriers that they are absolutely right. Yes, you’ve won a candy apple, what we have is Conflict, with a capital K.
Ah, I hear you say, Tom is back on his conflict hobby horse. What does this have to do with understanding others?
The original contention that self-knowledge helps you with others is substantiated as follows. Ask yourself, providing you are on speaking terms, where did my shoulds come from?
Was I born with them? Hardly.
Did I pick them up with my personality? Maybe.
Whichever the case, one thing seems certain: they are historic; they were developed in the past.
So the $64,000 questions are,
"Why be driven by a set of rules that are antiquated?"
"Why allow habits or tendencies developed in the past to dictate your behaviour in the present?"
Why not learn from history, and give yourself choice? What SHOULD be doesn’t matter, it’s your own, personalised historic myth. What’s important is what IS.
But, until you learn how to set aside your antediluvian illusions, you never really get to see what IS.
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